Do Not Dwell

Someone met with a serious personal issue, and was crying badly infront of me today.

While i am writing my blog, I am struggling with the fact that how much of what I know should be written publicly here.

I know that this is a personal blog, but how personal a blog diary can be, if it is constantly being read by many, so i realised that there is still a tinge of censorship i need to practise, so that basic trust and order can be put in place still.

I think by now all of us know that bad things do happen to good people, but then again, how good can one be if we are all not perfect beings. So bad things happen to anyone and everyone from time to time.

First thing, do not dwell in self pity right away. Do not get emotional that it clouds away our vision to think.

In times like this, we need to stay focused to pinpoint, which part of the problem can be solved, must be solved, what, how and when, and which area we need to leave it to life and time to bring it to past .....

Talk it loud, think it through.

Powerful people stay positive at all time.
Staying positive does not mean that one does not recognize the emotions and the pain.
What happened has happened, but the faster one gets through the stage the better.
Dwelling in it one more day, loses one more day of happiness.

Lastly, dont assume bad even before it happens. Sometimes we give the devil too much credit.